My man says he is with me but can't make a committment because of his job status and possibly moving away. He also has a few other women falling all over him who he claims are just friends. Does this make him a player?

Sissy says

It sounds like he may be keeping his options open at your expense. You did not elaborate about the other women or how you know about them falling at his feet, but if he is not putting a stop to it, he is obviously getting some satisfaction from it. I would give him a speech, a little time to clean up his act and then move on! Life is too short, but I am afraid your concerns maybe a reality.

So I have started seeing this guy for two weeks and he is great. We have a lot in common and he accepts me for who I am. Though, I'm very insecure about myself and I want him to meet my friends. But most of them are pretty and I'm afraid that he'll be more attracted to them. I have already bought this subject up with him and he has assured me that he only has eyes for me. How can I get over this insecurity?

Sissy says

It sounds to me like you are selling yourself short. If this guy wanted someone who looked different then he would not be with you. Relax, you are a beautiful woman that deserves his love. Tell yourself that you are beautiful and you will begin to believe it. Dont worry about this and dont discuss it with him any further, you want him to believe that you are wonderful, so talk a good game.

Good luck to you hun!