Dont Date Him. When To Say No and When To Say Yes?

How do you know when to take the advice Ė dont date him?

When it comes to dating there are all kinds of men that you will come across and not all of them will be ones that you want to date.

Who you date is your choice and there is nothing in the world that says you have to date every man you meet. Only you will know who you want to date and who you donít. However, how do you say no to some men and when do you say yes to others?

We will talk about saying no first.

Obviously you know the type of man that you want to date. Just because a man asks you on a date doesnít mean that you have to go out with him. When you are saying no to a man that asks you out, there are a few things that you should do.

1. Be polite but be firm. You donít want to be mean to them, you just donít want to date them.

2. If you feel more comfortable saying no when you are with someone, then have a friend with you.

3. With some men, you may have to say no more than once. Just be persistent and eventually they will get the picture.

You are not out to hurt anyone when trying to find a date, however, you also donít want to sell yourself short by going out with someone just for the sake of it.

There are plenty of men out there that will match your requirements. So when do you say yes to a date?

1. When you find someone that you feel that you want to get to know better, then don't be embarrassed to say yes to a date. This way you can get to know more about them and find out if your first impressions are justified.

2. If you find yourself attracted to someone and you know that they feel the same way then why not ask them out. They may be too shy to ask you which could result in the pair of you missing out on something special.

3. If you meet someone when you are out having fun with friends, again, don't be shy to set up a date with them. This way you two can go out and get to know each other better without any other distractions.

You are the only one who knows what you like in a man. Friends may say dont date him but it's your choice. Donít be afraid to say yes if you find someone that you want to get to know better even if others tell you not to.

However, donít be afraid to say no either. Not every man that you meet will be someone that your attracted to so there is no need to settle for just any man that asks you. Dont date him just so you can say you are dating, it is not worth it.

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