How And Where To Pick Up Girls


There are a lot of single men in the world that know how to pick up girls but they don’t know where to pick them up. Then there are the others who don’t know how to pick up girls and don’t know where to pick them up either.

It doesn’t matter which category you fall into, this article should give you some pointers to get you started.

Here are the top 3 things to consider when picking up girls:

1. Be yourself - Don’t try and be someone you are not because it will show. Girls can tell when you are being sincere and when you are not. When you act like someone you’re not, the girls will take that as you lying to them and that will not be good in the long run. So be yourself.

2. Be honest but not over eager - You need to make sure that you tell her honest information because it will come back to haunt you if you don’t. Make sure though that you don’t offer up your whole life history in the first conversation because it will likely mean you will have little time to find out about her and it’s possible she will be bored with hearing you talking about yourself all night. Keep that little bit of mystery for other dates.

3. Listen - The most important thing you can do when picking up a girl is to LISTEN. If the girl feels that you are not listening to what she is saying then they will think that you aren’t interested. So if you want success picking up girls, you need to learn to be a good listener. Trust me, girls love this in a man.

Once you’ve mastered the HOW you need to know WHERE to pick up girls. There are a lot of places that you can start. Below are 4 places where a lot of girls tend to hang out.

• The local bar or pub

• Your local library

• Sports clubs or activity classes

• Shopping mall

Where you choose to go will ultimately depend on what you like to do and where you like to hang out.

You want to try and go somewhere that you like so that any girl you find will have at least some of the same interests as you. It’s not essential but it’s always a good ice breaker when you are trying to meet someone if you have a common interest.

There are many places and various different ways to go about picking up girls, far more than can be covered in one article. You just need to figure out where you want to start and then go try it.

You won’t know if you can get the girl until you are willing to take the chance and go for it. The worst that can happen is that they say no. Then you just move on and accept that she wasn’t the one for you.

If you are looking for ice breakers or conversation topics the head over to the Dating Tips section and check out some of the articles there.

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