Overcome The Stresses Of Single Parent Dating


Single parents tend to have it a little bit harder with dating than people without kids.

Arranging babysitters, cancelling dates because your child has been taken ill and finding someone that the kids will eventually be able to accept into their lives can all be very stressful.

And thatís without the worry of having to work the subject of children into a conversation in the first place!

If you are a single parent and youíre looking to get back in to the dating scene, going online is always a good place to start.

There are many specialist sites that cater for people with children and Single Parent Love Life is the one that I tend to recommend because itís easy to navigate and the members on there are very friendly.

By using a specialist online site you will also immediately eliminate a lot of the stresses I mentioned above as the people you will meet will have kids of their own and be able to relate to your other commitments.

You also wonít need to worry about telling them you have children because, after all, thatís why your there in the first place!

If and when you do meet someone that you enjoy spending time with and feel things might develop itís important to take it fairly slowly and really get to know them inside out before even considering introducing them to any young ones.

My current partner didnít introduce me to her son until we had been dating solidly for about 3 months as she wanted to be sure that, firstly, what we had was something that would continue long term and secondly, that I would be able to handle having a child become part of my life. I completely respect her decision to do that and genuinely feel it is a big part of the reason we have been together such a long time.

At the end of the day, your kids will always come before a partner and itís not fair on them to bring people in and out of their lives every five minutes.

Also remember that it can be very awkward for a lot of older children to accept someone new being around mommy or daddy especially if they have grown up with their real mother and father together. Itís important that if they arenít accepting of your new partner, you explain the situation calmly and tell them that this person is not there to take the place of the other parent.

It would also be a good idea, if you think that there might be some potential problems, to have a long chat with your partner before actually introducing them into an environment they might not be able to deal with very well. The last thing you want is a wedge driven between the two of you because something has happened that they werenít expecting.

Life is always much easier to handle when you have someone to share it with and everyone wants to have that special someone in their life. Dating, if done right, can be as much fun for single parents as it is for everyone else and even if you donít end up together you may make some really good friends in the process.

Just remember, when you do find someone, DONíT RUSH IT!

For more help with internet dating please check out our internet dating section and our online dating reviews.

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