Tips For Attracting Women
There's a lot of bad advice and ideas floating around out there regarding ways to attract women. Many men have horribly inaccurate notions for what women find attractive about men. For example, a lot of pop culture would have you believe that women like subservient guys who are constantly showering them with affection and compliments, not to mention flowers and jewelry. This is simply not true. Behave like this and you'll find yourself scratching your head wondering why all women seem to view you as their "friend".
So what do women like? Women like men who they view as superior to them. Women like high-value, seemingly unattainable men. There is a golden rule in human psychology that you should always, always remember in the dating world: people want what they can't have and don't respect what they can't get rid of.
No woman likes a guy that falls all over himself trying to receive her attention. It's pathetic and it's not natural. Even worse, they can see right through it. Yup, that's right, women are fantastic at knowing when some guy is making pathetic little maneuvers to try to work their way into her life. The key to attracting women is to get them to chase you!
So how do you do that? Well, first of all, keep in mind that sometimes the best way to attract women is to not focus on attracting them at all. In other words, focus on building your own value as an individual. When you advance yourself physically and financially, you will naturally have more confidence. This, in turn, will make women more attracted to you.
When you are in the presence of a woman whom you want to build her attraction towards you, there are a few things you can do. Most importantly, keep in mind what you learned in the early part of this article: women don't want a guy behaving as if he'll do anything to be with her. Have standards. Make her come to you. Start by being cocky and funny. Use sarcasm to make her laugh and make yourself appear to have value. When you do compliment her, do it in a backhanded sort of way. Say stuff like, "wow that's some pretty bright nail polish you're wearing, I'm glad I brought my sunglasses!" This lets her know that you took notice of her grooming habits while also making her feel like she has to work in order to receive your approval.
Above all, be who you are and don't change yourself or your beliefs just for some chick. There are plenty of women out there. Don't get caught up on the notion that you have to be with one in particular. When you start to think that, you're making yourself a prisoner to what she thinks of you. Stay confident. Stay independent. The rest will figure itself out.
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